Okay so I have long dreads. Most of you know that because you have seen me. I shouldn’t have to proclaim that every time I’m on social media or in a social setting. It’s EVIDENT. Why waste the time telling you what’s right in front of your face? Point being if you are happy, independent, cool, fine, okay, good etc. why spend the time proclaiming intangibles that are extremely hard to quantify at times? WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE? Yourself? Others? Is the possible admiration or likes or hearts or shares that important to you? Maybe it is maybe it isn’t. It’s no ones role to judge you unless you commit what we deem a crime then you are judged by some folk. I just put this out as a question. Think about it.
Think about it. In the Christian faith there are denominations that sing “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.” The song doesn’t say I have a light bulb and it’s not on so I gotta tell everybody that I have a light bulb because they can’t see it really. The same faith talks about a Light House. How do you find your way as a lost vessel with no map, compass, instrumentation, the stars etc? If you can see the light from the Light House. No by the Light House saying “hey I’m a light house, I’m over here.”
The less time you spend worrying about about how others perceive you. The better your life will be. Just be and they will either see it or not. If you didn’t know this by now let me share it. At the end of the day most folk could care less.